"Stress is a perceived notion of hopelessness
due to a situation in which we believe that there is a high degree of unpredictability,
lack of control and lack of relief to reduce the stressful situation."
An important factor is PERCEIVED notion. Stress can
occur whether the situation is real or just believed to be real. Also if we are in a real
stressful situation but we do not PERCEIVE it to be stressful then we do not feel the
effects of stress.Unpredictable means we can not predict or determine what will happen. Or
we PERCEIVE and BELIEVE that we cannot predict the outcome
Unable to control the situation means just that we feel useless and the situation is out
of our control Or we PERCEIVE or BELIEVE that we cannot control the situation
Lack of relief to reduce stress is due to our inability to
FIND a way to relieve the stressful situation.
PERCEIVE, BELIEVE, FIND, CONTROL
We can change how we perceive our reality, what we believe
the outcome will be, find answers to help us control our lives and reduce stress.
By this definition, stress is a response which includes both
physical and mental components.
Mental responses to stress include adaptive (good) stress, anxiety, and depression. Where stress enhances function (physical or mental)
it may be considered good stress. However, if stress persists and is of excessive degree,
it eventually leads to a need for resolution, which may lead either to anxious (escape) or
depressive (withdrawal) behavior.
EFFECTS OF STRESS
High blood pressure, glucose imbalance in our blood,
headache, reduction of our immune system, fever, depression, feelings of weakness and
being tired all day long, loss of interest in daily activities, decrease in motivation,
poor self esteem, decrease sexual desire, increase in colds and flu like symptoms,
decreased healing, increased aging, substance abuse, and the list goes on and on.
HYPNOSIS REDUCES STRESS
Hypnosis helps us control our destiny by allowing
us to perceive a more appropriate reality with predictable results in which we have a
sense of control over our lives.
STRESSED OUT...RELAAAAX...WITH HYPNOSIS
John used to down two scotch and waters before
dinner every night just to relax enough to make the transition from work to home life. But
after dinner he would be so relaxed hed nod off while reading the paper and find
himself unable to go to sleep upon retiring. He desperately needed to unwind after a
stressful workday as a management executive and was looking for an alternative to
"social drinking" when he stumbles upon hypnosis.
Now after work John takes a fifteen minute
"transition break" by closing himself off in his bedroom, turning off the lights
and the phone and putting on some soft music. He slips into comfortable clothes and
stretches out on his bed, or in his recliner. As the music begins to soothe his nerves his
thoughts turn to his "safe place", a mental haven where he has gone many times
to escape from the stresses of the outer world. Here in his own imagination John is in
complete control.
He can visit his favorite location a
stretch of deserted beach or another safe place in a cool pine forest where he
listens to the tinkling of a nearby waterfall. Wherever he is, John knows he is safe,
comfortable, and in complete control, with no one asking anything of him, or wanting
anything from him.
Here he can and does imagine
himself as he desires to be happy, healthy, relaxed and at peace with himself and
everyone around him. If he experienced any difficulties at work, he puts these problems or
difficulties into the basket of a hot air balloon and watches them gently float away,
knowing that they will be taken care of in the best possible way.
John may take a dip in the ocean or playfully
dance under a gentle waterfall, cleansing both his mind and his body of all stress, all
tension, all negative emotions, and feeling a restorative healing energy take their place
as he continues to enjoy this peaceful, relaxing state.
After about fifteen minutes, John instinctively
ends his imaginative journey and slowly returns his thoughts to the present, reminding
himself that he is back in his room feeling refreshed and revitalized, yet completely and
fully relaxed and ready to enjoy his evening with the family.
The relaxed, good-natured John who emerges from
the bedroom is a completely different person from the harried, stressed, and sometimes
short-tempered man who went in. Johns family members, co-workers, and friends, as
well as John, are grateful that he has discovered hypnosis.
John is just one of a growing number of people
who find hypnosis works for them as an effective, non-drug alternative for stress
reduction. With stress an ever-present part of our lifestyle and the growing evidence for
the link between stress and illness including such conditions as hypertension,
heart disease, ulcers, immune deficiency diseases and even cancer hypnosis provides
welcome relief with no side effects.
Hypnosis, simply put, is a relaxed and focused state of
mind. Most people can be trained to enter this state of deep relaxation and purposefully
narrowed attention easily and safely, in just a few sessions with the help of a trained
hypnotherapist.
Once the training has taken place, most clients can induce a
self-hypnotic state, following the instructions of the hypnotherapist. Unlike alcohol or
drugs, hypnosis can be used anytime, anywhere. All that it requires is an opportunity to
relax for a few minutes. One can practice hypnosis while gazing out an office window or
sitting in a quiet corner of the office break room.
By quieting down the body and the mind hypnosis sets into motion a
chain reaction of physiological responses, such as hormonal changes and changes in immune
system function. Hypnosis reduces the effects of stress on the body by thwarting the
"fight or flight" response, lowering heart rate and blood pressure and relaxing
muscle tension. These changes, in turn, stimulate other positive changes such as lowered
production of stress hormones and increase of protective T-cell production by the immune
system.
Since the 1970s a growing number of scientific studies
indicate that hypnosis, among other "mind/body" therapies such as biofeedback
and meditation are effective options in treatment of illness where stress is a major
factor. While not meant to take the place of traditional medical care, hypnosis can act as
a useful adjunct therapy one that is not only effective but enjoyable as well. One
such major study at Duke University showed that practicing relaxation resulted in reduced
hypertension and reduced blood sugar levels in test patients.
With more studies every day illustrating the effectiveness of
hypnosis for stress reduction and its accompanying health benefits, shouldnt you try
hypnosis? Its simple, easy and pleasant.
Contrary to popular myth, a hypnotherapist does not "take
over" your mind or influence your thoughts except at your request. You are
aware at all times of the suggestions that the hypnotherapist offers and your mind will
automatically reject any suggestions that conflict with your values or beliefs. On the
other hand, when the hypnotherapists suggestions lead you to more relaxation, a
healthier and more balanced life, why not accept them with an open mind?
10 WAYS TO REDUCE
YOUR STRESS
These 10 tips below can be applied to your life
and all of your relationships as it pertains to school, work, family, your significant
other and friends. My hope is that you find positive ways to help manage all the stress
that you are dealing with.
1 - Manage Your Time Effectively: Keep a To Do list or daily
planner and make sure to include time for yourself and time for stress reduction
activities.
2 - Take a Break: Schedule several short breaks throughout
your day to help minimize your stress. Get up and stretch, read a book, go for a walk or
simply call a friend.
3 - Minimize Interruptions: When focusing on something
important, make sure to block off a period of time when you can work without being
disturbed or distracted.
4 - Eat Healthy Foods: Try to avoid foods high in fat, sugar
and sodium. Be sure to snack on something healthy and do not skip meals because this will
lower your energy levels.
5 - Exercise: Regular physical activity is one of the best
ways to deal with stress. It releases endorphins and gives you a natural high. Try
walking, bike riding or simply exercising in the comfort of your own home.
6 - Think Positively: Instead of focusing on negative
thoughts, focus on the positive things in your life and say to yourself at least one
positive thought each day.
7 - Learn to Say NO: Don't feel guilty when you have to tell
others no. Taking on additional projects or work for others when you are busy will only
cause you more stress.
8 - Put Stressful Situations in Perspective: Will it matter a
month from now? What about a year from now? Is it something that you can control? Ask
yourself these questions when you are faced with a stressful situation.
9 - Get Enough Sleep: Studies show that most people need
between 6-9 hours of sleep, but most people give up sleep when they are under stress to
finish more work. Be sure to get the proper rest so that you can energize your mind, body
and spirit.
10 - Find Someone to Talk to: Talking to your friends or
family can help because it gives you a chance to express your feelings. However, problems
in your social life or family life can be the hardest to talk about. If you feel like you
can't talk to your family or a friend, talk to someone outside the situation. This could
be your priest, minister, a therapist, your family doctor or a coach.
10 WAYS TO A BETTER NIGHT'S SLEEP
1 - Simplify your life. An overabundance of
information can be stressful. Cutting out some of the clutter in your life will help you
focus on what really matters. Try reading a book until you feel sleepy.
2 - Develop the wisdom to know what's worth stressing over. Here's an old saying: "In
the face of strong winds, let me be a blade of grass. In the face of strong walls, let me
be a gale of wind."
3 - Avoid alcohol at least four hours before bedtime. Alcohol makes you sleepy, but it
also causes fragmented sleep while your body spends the night metabolizing the alcohol.
4 - Don't drink caffeinated beverages such as coffee or tea 8-9 hours before bedtime.
Caffeine can stay in your system as long as nine hours after you consume it.
5 - Take a walk when you can't sleep. Give the adrenaline a place to go. A little exercise
will release beta-endorphins into your bloodstream, which will counteract the stress
hormones.
6 - Keep your bedroom cool, between 65 and 72 degrees.
7 - Set your alarm clock and turn it around. Being able to see the time only reminds you
how late it is and makes you more anxious about how you're not asleep yet.
8 - Go to sleep and get up at the same times every day to set your body's internal clock.
9 - Exercise at least 15-30 minutes a day, it will enhance the quality of your sleep. Do
not exercise at least 2 hours before going to bed. Allow time for your body to relax.
10 - Drink a glass of warm milk before bed. It contains tryptophan, an amino acid that's
one of the first ingredients in serotonin, a soothing brain chemical. Also eat a small
bowl of instant oatmeal topped with a sliced banana. These are two of the few foods that
contain the sleep-promoting hormone melatonin.
If you're experiencing stress in your life call me
today to schedule a FREE consultation appointment to discuss how Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy
can help you. Working with me in a private session as your hypnotherapist, I can tailor
your suggestions and imageries to your specific needs and desires.
I'm looking forward to serving you.
"Change
your mind,
Change
your life!"
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